Part 5 – Negotiating with diversity
Diversity is often considered in terms of cultural, religious and racial diversity. For the purposes of this article, the term cultural diversity encompasses all of these areas.
When there is cultural diversity between parties in negotiation, focus on the cultural practices of the individuals concerned rather than the culture as a whole when considering if, how, and to what extent cultural differences are in play during negotiations. Otherwise, we may stereotype participants based on our judgements of their culture as a whole. The ideal is to learn about the different culture, understand it, then make informed non-judgemental decisions based on the actual situation in front of you.
It is also important to test your understanding of the culture. Do not make any assumptions. Communication is vital when dealing with cultural diversity. The parties and the mediator must always clarify the objectives of the parties from a cultural perspective. A mediator may be assisted by engaging someone from within the culture that he or she is unfamiliar with. This person could be a comediator taking an active role in the mediation, or a cultural adviser that keeps the mediator on track without participating in the process directly.
1. Focus on the culture or the individual?
We can give too much weight to cultural factors. Individual differences can be just as significant as cultural differences. The dangers of focusing solely on cultural differences include treating people as cultural ambassadors rather than unique, multi-faceted human beings. Important information can be lost as a result.
While background research on culture is important, getting to know the participants as individuals, including their profession, work experience, education, areas of expertise, personality and negotiating experience is vital. The culture of each of us as individuals is multi-layered: individual, group, work, regional or city and national.
2. Reduce stress and take your time
Reduce stress when negotiating cultural issues or issues of diversity. Emotional stress, deadlines and accountability to others from within your culture can cause particpants to lock in with cultural expectations rather than carefully analysing the situation in front of them. Take breaks, extend deadlines or ask neutral third parties for help in resolving differences.
3. Avoid stereotypes
When making judgement calls, we rely on schemas: cognitive templates that provide low effort, readymade answers. Cultural schemas account for the distinctive behavioural biases exhibited by negotiators from a different culture.
While research confirms cultural stereotypes, it is a mistake to assume that group tendencies reliably predict any one individual’s behaviour. Cultural differences in negotiation don’t hinge on, for example, where the parties were born, but they depend on what the negotiator actually does at the negotiation table. The ability to engage in constructive communication – by revealing and interpreting information – matters more than where someone is born.
Cultural differences between groups are often quite small. However, we tend to overuse the stereotypes that arise from even small differences, which blocks us from noting each participant’s important individual information. We act as if the person on the other side of the table represents the cultural stereotype we were expecting, rather than responding to the actual person that is there. We involuntarily seek information that backs up these stereotypes.
4. Observe, don’t judge
We tend to interpret the behaviour of others, their values and beliefs, through the lens of our own culture, conditioning and judgement. To overcome this tendency, we need to learn about the other party’s culture. This means not only researching the customs and behaviours of different cultures but also understanding why people follow the customs and exhibit these behaviours in the first place.
Before any negotiation, take time to study the context of the person on the other side of the table, including the various cultures to which he or she belongs to: individual, organisational, ethnic or national.
5. Adopt an outsider’s lens
There is often a paradox in negotiations where we are typically unaware of our own biases yet at the same time we can accurately pinpoint the biases that influence the decisionmaking of others. This has been described as making decisions using two different lenses: the insider lens and the outsider lens. The outsider lens is used when we are removed or detached from a particular situation.
A strategy for mediating disputes involving diversity
How do you effectively mediate disputes that do not fit within the logic of an interest-based dispute? That is, disputes involving challenges to identity, values or morality – the issues that can arise in situations of diversity.
Try this four-step process:
- Separate interests and values: Separate a values-based or identity-based dispute into a more traditional interest-based segment and then help the parties deal with that portion of the dispute in a more traditional way. Once that is done, it might be possible for the parties to then take on the values-based issues.
- Be direct: Facilitate dialogue and encourage opportunities for deeper mutual understanding and relationship building. Don’t aim to resolve the dispute. Instead, focus on helping the parties understand and respect the views of each other and, most of all, help them to avoid demonisation. Create a different climate in which a traditional settlement may be possible at a later time.
- Universal values: Reframe these disputes by appealing to values that the parties might both share, rather than focusing on the conflicts between them. By referencing universal values (for example, equal rights, freedom from violence, etc) the parties may find common ground. Recognising common values can open lines of communication, build trust and otherwise improve relations. They can also become springboards to finding ways of living and working together more effectively.
- Be curious: Have the parties confront their differences in a controlled fashion and help them explore and ask questions about each other’s values with the goal of possibly altering their beliefs, stereotypes and prejudices.
Some thoughts on the above process are:
- Mediation can be used to alter relationships while not directly resolving the underlying value dispute;
- Reframing a dispute in terms of shared values is a form of resolution, although it requires a restatement of the problem the parties want to solve;
- Mediators are not therapists, but it does take a kind of therapeutic engagement to help parties confront others with diametrically opposed and deeply held values and beliefs;
- It is often correct to assume that people engaged in value- or identity-based disputes will not agree to compromise, but other forms of accommodation and reconciliation are still possible. More thought needs to be given to the logic and benefits of reconciliation.
The outcomes of the above process may not look like a traditional settlement, but that does not mean they lack validity or are unworthy of study and understanding.
While diversity may present barriers to reaching an agreement in negotiations, differences can also be opportunities to create valuable agreements. Take, for example, crosscultural negotiations. These are particularly ripe with opportunities to capitalise on different preferences, priorities, beliefs, and values.
Paul Sills firstname.lastname@example.org is an Auckland barrister specialising in commercial and civil litigation. He is also an experienced mediator. This is the fifth in a series of articles on embracing diversity. Read Part One, Part Two, Part Three and Part Four and Part Six.
Last updated on the 3rd August 2018